Let’s get messy!

I’m here to support you through your messiest moments in life, PhD and everything in between.

By working with me, you’ll…

  • … discover more of the things that feel fiery, nourishing and good, and let go of the things that don’t
  • …create and manifest all your little+big desires from a place of total ease, rest and flow
  • …craft unapologetic, fierce boundaries that will smash past perfectionism, fear of failure and imposter syndrome for good

Are you ready to find the magic in the mess? Jump into a Discovery Call with me to see how we might work together

How to get messy with me

13 things you need to know about doing a PhD

A totally FREE e-guide for anyone doing doctoral research – now updated with 3 key new additions.

We dive into some super clear insights and tips for dealing with 13 key aspects of PhD life that just aren’t that commonly talked about.

If you ever struggle with things like…

  • Neverending PhD guilt for not doing more
  • Imposter syndrome
  • What to do when things go wrong

this guide will put a stop to those niggly worries.

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Hey! I’m Jamie, the Messy Coach

I’m all about embracing the grubby, untidy, imperfect things we’ve been taught to avoid, resist, sweep under the carpet or control and fix to within an inch of our lives. Things like: 

  • Imperfections and flaws
  • Discomfort
  • Every gross, sticky, shitty feeling
  • Feeling not-good-enough
  • Mistakes

I dare do this work because I myself am a recovered/recovering perfectionist.

I’ve known what it’s like to fear failure, to live a half-life because I was too afraid of fucking up, and then to land unexpectedly, over and over again, in exactly the kind of mess I tried so hard to avoid.

But I also know what it’s like to finally step out of that fear. After going through the wringer multiple times myself, I’ve broken the code for how to shift from this gross, messy space into one of badass boundaried confidence, joy, ease, flow and sharp-as-tack clarity.

And now I’m making it my mission to support you to do the same – for your PhD, for life-in-general and for all the in-betweens.

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