let’s get unruly!

Welcome to the UNRULY way to work and live.

I’m Jamie and I’m here for the women who are done playing by rules that were never theirs.

I work with women at the edge of their unruly era – that sparky moment they realise the old rules no longer fit and they’re ready to lead themselves differently, their way.

Together, we design work and lives that feel sovereign, sustainable and entirely their own – rules, convensions and ‘shoulds’ be d*mned!

Ready to get unruly?

Heads up, tits out, let’s do this!

how to work with me

I do a lot of things! As a Generator in Human Design, I let joy lead the way in what I do and offer (a pretty unruly way of doing business that I’m pretty proud of!) so my menu of offerings is always evolving and updating. Mainly, I am a coach and trainer for researchers and solo business owners, but that can look like lots of different things, offered in different ways.

Below, you’ll find more information on my signature offerings. If there are other ways you’d like to work with me, please drop me an email and let’s talk.

the decision sessions
A 90-minute private intensive designed to help you make your next bold, defining move with clarity and self-leadership.

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Spark: 7-day
Telegram coaching
Seven days of high-touch coaching to help you move a specific project or goal forward

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notes on being unruly
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Hey! I’m Jamie, your unruly coach

I’ve done the whole thing of extreme overwork, of chasing the prestigious jobs and big titles – and I am so done with that life!

Today, it’s my mission to support anyone who wants to break free from the constraints of outdated social, cultural rules, expectations, ‘shoulds’, and obligations, to step into your most unruly, sovereign era.

As your unruly coach, I’m here to help you start releasing the binds of

  • Perfectionist tendencies
  • People pleasing
  • Meeting other people’s expectations
  • Feeling not-good-enough

…so that you too can start designing your own best work and life, on your terms, by your rules.

Learn more about me

client love notes

  • Jamie has a remarkably intuitive nature, and always knows what I need; she always has the tools to help me through whatever it is I’m going through. Being coached by Jamie is like going through the storms of life with the dearest and most loyal of friends, but one with the expertise and equanimity of someone who has been through it herself and who can offer trusted and humble guidance that will always be in your best interest. Give yourself the blessing of being coached by this beautiful, fun, funny, clever, master of love, truth and insight!
    Tammy Stone Takahashi
    Poet, Author, Healer, Yoga teacher
  • Speaking to Jamie, who is very connected to her emotional being, experiences and reactions has really helped someone like me, who often lives in my head and needs to intellectualize things in order for it to make sense. Hearing Jamie’s insights and perspectives has been eye opening. Jamie got me to consider and clarify my boundaries, and to ask the real questions of what I am okay with or not in my relationships,
    Luanne T
    Online entrepreneur
  • I am very proud of the fact that I was one of the early members of Jamie’s Messy coaching programme. She is vibrant, creative, spiritual, and intellectual, and that energy is infused into everything that she does. Jamie prioritises rest and listening to what your own personal rhythms are, and honouring that. This shouldn’t be revolutionary, but it absolutely is!
    Dr. Shelby Judge
    Researcher
  • Jamie has done wonders for me! Through her consistent encouragement and positive mindset, I have finally been able to ease away from being a workaholic. One of her superpowers is teaching people how to truly rest. While stress is a constant in my life, I am now happier and healthier than I have been in years.
    Dr. Lara Wallace
    Research Communication Coach and Founder of ‘English for Sustainability’
  • Jamie has a brilliant way of listening and reflecting back what I’m thinking through, and providing wise words to help move my thinking forward. She’s opened up space for such a light, fun and inspiring conversation about what’s next in my [post-PhD] journey, and offered the support and encouragement I need to move forward in a joyful, balanced way.
    Dr. Elsa Urmston
    Freelance Dance Educator & Researcher
  • Jamie is a super friendly coach, and the way she talks about navigating the challenges of life is incredibly relatable. [She] has encouraged me to set my own boundaries so I can manage the expectations and pressures of academic life. I’d recommend her to anyone who is trying to make some progress in turbulent times!
    Gareth Hughes
    PhD candidate