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why I’m an ‘irresponsible’ coach
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why I’m an ‘irresponsible’ coach

ByJamie Pei September 16, 2022September 16, 2022

It would be irresponsible for me NOT TO coach the way I do. Here’s exactly how I do coach – and why.

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That time I literally couldn’t even shit in peace
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That time I literally couldn’t even shit in peace

ByJamie Pei August 23, 2022August 24, 2022

A story about trying to shit in peace, throwing out expectations and setting down some stern boundaries.

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{PhD} What’s so hard about doing a PhD anyway?
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{PhD} What’s so hard about doing a PhD anyway?

ByJamie Pei July 18, 2022July 18, 2022

An overview of five unique challenges of PhD life and some ways to face them with more grace, clarity, ease, joy

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{PhD} Feel-good work routines for your best PhD days
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{PhD} Feel-good work routines for your best PhD days

ByJamie Pei July 11, 2022July 13, 2022

8 best tips for creating nourishing, fulfilled, full days (in and out of your PhD)

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Fuck ‘showing up’
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Fuck ‘showing up’

ByJamie Pei July 4, 2022July 4, 2022

Showing up in the best way possible starts with recognising what you need in order to do that ‘showing up’ with ease and pleasure

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{PhD} What is ‘good enough’ for the PhD?
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{PhD} What is ‘good enough’ for the PhD?

ByJamie Pei June 30, 2022June 16, 2022

What the actual fuck does it mean to be ‘good enough’ in PhD or academia anyway?

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Fuck confidence
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Fuck confidence

ByJamie Pei June 27, 2022June 27, 2022

Respond from an unshakeable space of YOU, instead of others’ expectations and external imperatives to “just be confident”.

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{PhD} Radical alternative ways of approaching productivity in the PhD
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{PhD} Radical alternative ways of approaching productivity in the PhD

ByJamie Pei June 21, 2022

If you’re struggling to work the way you think you should be working in your PhD, here are a few radical, different ways of thinking about research productivity and PhD success.

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{PhD} The PhD can be challenging AND joyful
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{PhD} The PhD can be challenging AND joyful

ByJamie Pei June 9, 2022June 9, 2022

Challenges/difficulties AND invigorating, stimulating, joyful fulfilment in the PhD process are not two mutually exclusively things.

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You don’t need to know the whole perfect plan
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You don’t need to know the whole perfect plan

ByJamie Pei May 13, 2022May 23, 2022

You don’t need to know 398 steps ahead. You just need to know the next small first step.

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